On Mentors

Over the years, I’ve been blessed to be surrounded by truly great people who have taught me many lessons. My mentors have come in all shapes and sizes, and there are a few things I’ve tried to remember to make the most of them.

Seek out the best

The best way to learn is from those who have “been there”—someone who has already navigated successfully through the peaks and valleys of life’s journey. These are the best kind of mentors. Many people claim to be experts, but almost nothing can compare to first-hand experience. No one reaches triumph without tribulation, so odds are whatever it is you are struggling with, someone has been in your shoes before and succeeded. Follow their lead.

Learn from everyone

Just because someone doesn’t have a Nobel Prize or Olympic gold medal, doesn’t mean they can’t be a mentor. Everyone has a nugget of wisdom to offer, the hard part is finding and extracting it.

Two summers ago, I worked landscaping with a bunch of tough, blue-collar guys. During the day, we busted our asses hauling timber and seed bags, and on the lunch breaks we did push-ups. Not only did I get stronger that summer, but I learned a lot from the guys. They worked hard all day and never complained. I still admire that.

You can find inspiration in the most unexpected places, from the most unexpected people. It’s always good to get a different perspective. Keep in mind that everyone has their own area of specialty.

Observe what not to do

Although I believe everyone has something to teach you, not all lessons are positive. Sometimes the best thing a person can offer is what not to do. If you learn from the mistakes of others, you can avoid repeating them yourself.

In his Meditations, Marcus Aurelius reminds, “Say to yourself in the early morning: I shall meet today inquisitive, ungrateful, violent, treacherous, envious, uncharitable men.” This is a recurring topic and he constantly tells himself to rise above and learn from these nuisances.

Some of my best lessons have about come this way. People will make mistakes, they will be lazy, they will wrong you. If you don’t make a note of it, you may find yourself walking down the same dark alleys. The sooner you identify what you don’t want to be, the sooner you will get to where you want to be.

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Behind the Iron Curtain

“Don’t let the sound of your own wheels drive you crazy.” - The Eagles, Take it easy

I’ve been watching a lot of film of Saitiev lately, and I dig his style. Buvaisar Saitiev is a Russian wrestler who is arguably one of the best and most dominant wrestlers of all time. His résumé reads like an inventory list of Fort Knox. Nine-time world champion, including three Olympic gold medals.

I tried finding a specific match that best captures his style, but couldn’t decisively pick one. Here is a man who won the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta at age 21 and is still going strong in 2008. He’s been around the block and stood the test of time. What can we learn from his battle-tested methods?

Take it easy

When Saitiev steps out on the mat, his head is clear. Beneath the Iron Curtain of his scruffy beard and rough exterior, he is calm and ready to go. You can see it in his style, his shoulders are relaxed and he breathes easy. His arms dangle casually by his side and his feet are light as a feather. In matches—Olympic finals included—he appears ghostly tranquil, as if composing a symphony.

I have a friend, Sean Harrington, who calls this “The Freedom”. He argues that many wrestlers get tense and nervous before matches, and lose their Freedom. Have you ever had that match where you are completely in the zone, on point, at the top of your game? You feel loose and open, and get lost in the moment. Afterward, it’s almost incomprehensible—as if you were possessed by some wrestling demon. And you dominate. That is wrestling at its best, that is The Freedom, and Saitiev has It.

Dominate your world

Part of being a champion is never being satisfied—it is not enough to just win. Saitiev has an insatiable appetite for victory and dominance, and he shows this trait in two ways:

-Unlike most people, he wasn’t happy with just one Olympic gold medal. He competes for the love of competition, not fame, money, or glory. Well, maybe glory.

-He doesn’t aim to edge opponents out narrowly. In an infamous preliminary match at the 2003 World Championships, he wrestled Jean Diatta of Senegal. Diatta takes him down in the beginning of the match, and Saitiev wastes no time in punishing him for this misdemeanor. Back then, if you got a technical fall you could opt to continue wrestling, and he does just that. The final score was 34-2.

There are no easy matches at the World Championships, and most coaches would advocate finishing preliminary matches quickly to conserve energy. Not this Russian.

Satiev vs. Diatta, 2003 World Championship, 74 kg

Develop a comfortable routine

According to Wikipedia, Saitiev recites the following poem before every match:

“I don’t think being famous is very attractive. That is not what lifts you up. You don’t have to build an archive. You don’t have to panic over your number of volumes. The object of a masterpiece is giving yourself away.” -Boris Pasternak, My Sister – Life

I’m not saying everyone should recite a poem, in fact, I find that excessive. But the prematch routine is a deeply personal matter—everyone does it his or her own way. Make sure you have a comfortable routine so you are calm and ready when you step to the line. Come game day, all the training you’ve done is past, and all you can control is the present. Warm-up and stay focused.

Poise is being comfortable and confident in a routine you’ve done many times before. When he steps on the mat, Buvaisar Saitiev knows he is ready.

Noted wrestling reporter, Jason Bryant, has brought to my attention an error.  He points out that Diatta only scores 1 point on the first takedown, and that Saitiev in fact scored 39 points.  Apparently the folks at FILA messed up the score because it clearly says 34-2 on the scoreboard at the end.  I do not care enough to go through the video and tally the correct score.  Bottom line: it was A LOT to a little.

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Notes to Self

The other day, I was watching one of my all-time favorite matches, and I made a few mental notes. The match is Kendall Cross (USA) vs. Shamil Umakhanov (Russia) in the 1997 World Cup. Kendall is a very entertaining wrestler, and he takes his art form to a high level.

Maintain your composure under fire

Early in the match Kendall gets thrown to his back, giving up 3 points. In a world class match, that is a big deal. A lot of wrestlers would become disheartened, but Kendall holds his ground. He comes back and winds up winning the match 7-5.

It’s easy to lose your head under those circumstances. I had a match once where I got thrown to my back early on, and I tried to go for big moves to make up the difference. I wound up giving up a major decision in one of the worst matches of my career.

So next time you give up a few points, don’t panic. Stop, refocus, and get after it. Patience is rarely mentioned in the same sentence as wrestling, but a little patience can go a long way.

Don’t hesitate

One my favorite parts of watching Kendall wrestle is that he wrestles impulsively. In our culture, a lot of emphasis is placed on preparation and planning, but in wrestling, over-thinking can kill you. During a match, you make thousands of micro-decisions every few seconds. If you sit there and think through a position, it’s usually too late, you’ve already lost it.

Indecision and hesitation are not your friends. Practice making quick, decisive decisions.

Let feel dictate (trust your gut)

Kendall is the absolute master of this. Many wrestlers are constrained by the limited number of moves or positions they are familiar with, and they dare not venture outside their comfort zone. You can see in this match that Kendall is not bound by this—he frequently puts himself in new and unique positions to open up scoring potential.

Not one of the points he scores is from a classic “move.” Well, ok, the high gut-wrench is a move, but no one else in the world can do it like Mr. Cross.

Don’t be afraid to score points

My friend once said of Kendall, “He isn’t afraid to give up 9 points to score 10.” I liked the way that sounded and have always remembered it. Remember, it is better to win 10-9 than to lose 0-1.

Rise to the occasion

This match against Umakhanov was at the World Cup. It was Kendall’s last match before retirement. It was hosted by Oklahoma State University, his alma mater. And it was in front of his hometown Stillwater crowd. That’s a lot of pressure. He steps it up and gets it done. Git rrrr dunnnnn, as they say in Oklahoma.

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The Mountain

Here is a quote from a book called Rules for Radicals by Saul Alinsky.  The book itself has nothing to do with wrestling or even athletics, but I found this passage particularly inspiring.  He illustrates better than I can the concept of Jumping Levels through his image of a mountain.  Matt Valenti (2x NCAA Champion) says he pictures The Comfort Zone as a box to be stretched; I picture it as a mountain, waiting to be climbed.  Enjoy the hike.

“If we think of the struggle as a climb up a mountain, then we must visualize a mountain with no top. We see a top, but when we finally reach it, the overcast rises and we find ourselves merely on a bluff. The mountain continues on up. We now see the “real” top ahead of us, and strive for it, only to find we’ve reached another bluff, the top still above us. And so it goes on, interminably.

Knowing that the mountain has no top, that it is a perpetual quest from plateau to plateau, the question arises, “Why the struggle, the conflict, the heartbreak, the danger, the sacrifice. Why the constant climb?” Our answer is the same as that which a real mountain climber gives when he is asked why he does what he does. “Because it’s there.” Because life is there ahead of you and either one tests oneself in its challenges or huddles in the valleys in a dreamless day-to-day existence whose only purpose is the preservation of an illusory security and safety. The latter is what the vast majority of people choose to do, fearing the adventure into the unknown. Paradoxically, they give up the dream of what may lie ahead on the heights of tomorrow for a perpetual nightmare—an endless succession of days fearing the loss of a tenuous security.”

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A Note From a Friend

Hudson Collins, a friend and teammate of mine from Blair, has a message.  I told him I would gladly welcome any “clear, cogent piece” he wrote, and he went above and beyond my expectations.  When he says he has worked with world class coaches, I give you my word, that is not an exaggeration.  If anything, it’s an understatement.   Hope you enjoy his message.

When I was first asked to do a guest entry on Rollie’s Blog I was initially flattered. Later, when I realized people would read this, I was apprehensive about the prospect. I asked Rollie what I could possibly contribute. He responded by asking, “What knowledge do you have that is of value to others?” He then went on to remind me that I was an English Major and that writing well should not be as hard as I expected. Ironically, his advice and reassurance showed me the common bond between being a great writer and a great wrestler. A voice. Your voice.

When I first took higher level English classes in high school, my teacher told me that I was too uniform and dry in my prose. In order to elevate the level of my writing, I needed to find my own voice. I was very frustrated with this concept. How does one discover his or her “voice?” Several years later, I finally realized that a “voice” is not discovered. Instead it is developed—by reading others’ great writing and constantly critiquing one’s own.

This leads me to the goal of finding one’s wrestling “voice.” I am the first to admit that I have been in the sport a relatively short time—five years this October. Yet I have been incredibly lucky in that short span. From the time I started, I have been surrounded by some of the best athletes and coaches in the country, if not the world.  Each one had his own unique style which seemed to suit his personality. Each time I worked with a new coach, I wanted to do exactly what he did. It made sense to me that my imitation of his style would eventually lead to similar success for me. It didn’t. No doubt, I have made great progress in the sport, but I was frustrated that I was not achieving my goals, even though I did as I had been instructed.

Not long ago I realized my problem. Although I had some of the best coaching and had learned so much, I had yet to develop my own “voice” in the sport. As I said before, all of my coaches had different styles. Some were flexible and funky, some had incredible athleticism and explosiveness. I now realize that I would have been much better served picking up what felt the most comfortable and natural, as opposed to starting over each time and changing my style with each coaching change.

So here is my knowledge that may be of value: in order to mature as a wrestler and to develop your own style, you need to be open to new techniques and philosophies, all the while sifting through the information and picking out what will best fit you. Just listen to some of the higher level guys interviewed on www.flowrestling.org. They have a rare level of understanding about their craft, one which can only derive from years of evaluation and experimentation. One interview which comes to mind is John Smith’s, entitled “The Scientist.”

In wrestling, like writing, this development and evolution will lead you to a greater understanding of your discipline and, ultimately, your own unique voice.

True Ease in Writing comes from Art, not Chance,
As those move easiest who have learn’d to dance.

~Alexander Pope, “An Essay on Criticism”

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Standing Up to Live

As wrestling and school get cranking in full gear here, I have less time to sit and write.  But, like any good teammate, I will not abandon my readers (if there are any).  My main focus right now is that of a wrestler and a student—not a writer.  Henry David Thoreau once famously wrote, “How vain it is to sit down to write when you have not stood up to live.”  That is what I intend on doing, standing up to live.

Hopefully my results on the mat this year will speak for themselves.  I will do my best effort to keep passing along anything I can, but with less frequency.  I have a strong belief in quality over quantity, and I don’t want to bog readers down with the trivalities of my life (“Today I worked out, it was really intense!!!”).  Keep checking back for updates.

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Football and Wrestling

I just discovered a new blog called The view from section GG, which is written by a wrestling fan out of Iowa named Jim Brown.  He has an interesting piece about football players wrestling.  In the article, he quotes Stephen Neal (4x NCAA All-American, 2x NCAA Champion, World Freestyle Champion) as saying, “Wrestling develops skills that translate to football: leverage, balance, explosion and hand fighting.”

Jim states that Neal got 4 Super Bowl rings playing for the Patriots, Wikipedia says he has 2, the Patriots’ website says he has 3.  I don’t know enough about football to prove or disprove any claims, but one thing’s for sure, he’s a hell of an athlete.

My experience is that many football coaches tend to discourage their athletes from wrestling.  This doesn’t make sense to me.  Stephen Neal didn’t even play football in college!  After he didn’t make the Olympic team in 2000, he decided to tryout for the NFL.  History abounds with stories like that.

People in Massachusetts clamor over Fred Smerlas—a Waltham, MA wrestler—who went on to play nose tackle for the Bills, 49ers, and Patriots.  To me it seems like football coaches should be pushing their players out on the mat, not pulling them off like they often do.  In my hometown of Wellesley, MA, there was always a big feud between football and wrestling coaches.  Things are so rough within the athletic department, and the wrestlers are usually the ones who suffer.

I’ve seen wrestling coaches dismissed because of rival factions within the department, and frankly,  I’m still bitter about it.

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Preseason

A lot of high school wrestlers ask me this question: What should I be doing in the preseason? In college, our preseason training is very structured, however high schoolers often lack this element. Here are my ideas on the matter; they are by no means the only or the best ideas out there, just some suggestions. In fact, many people will disagree with my methods, and that’s fine—I welcome any and all criticism.

First:

This is the time of the year to reformulate your style and straighten out any kinks in your technique. Let me explain: there are two scenarios, either you worked hard and improved over the summer, or you didn’t. Either way, it’s too late to change that now. If you worked hard and learned a lot of new technique, it is now time to consolidate your new technique and mix it into your repertoire. If you didn’t jump levels over the summer, well then now is the time to clear the cobwebs and try to get your groove back before the season starts.

The best way to do this is to get on the mat and experiment. Starting out, I would recommend finding a worthy practice partner and rolling around—nothing more. A lot of people hit the ground running and go crazy with live wrestling. I would say that it just isn’t worth it; the point is not to get in awesome shape overnight, but to get your feel back. Plus, the risk of injury is high when wrestlers are rusty.

So let’s say over the summer you learned a good finish on a single leg. It doesn’t do you any good to just know the move and say you know it. You must have the feel, timing, and reaction down pat. Feeling it out with a partner is an ideal way to push through the awkward phase of a new move and be ready to hit it when the season rolls around. Not just repetition (though this is very important), but innovation, improvement, and experimentation.

As the weeks pass, more live wrestling and hard drilling is crucial, but always remember to tweak your habits. Try new moves as you wrestle—through this trial and error, your technique will start to click. The best way to do this is to join a club or go to open mats where you will be able to experiment freely and have access to solid coaches to guide you.

Second:

You MUST get in shape during this time of the year. Many view the preseason as just another time to improve your overall conditioning. I see it slightly differently, if only in principal. I think that working out in the preseason should be intended specifically to give you a foundation on which to build during the season. Here is what I mean: if you go into the season out of shape, you will no doubt get whipped into shape by your coach eventually, but it will come at a cost. This cost is that this process will pointlessly wear you out and drain your body.

I’ve seen really good wrestlers come into the season looking good, but by the end they are so fatigued that they crash and burn. So I view the preseason as a time to get in shape for…getting in shape again. Again, nothing too serious at first, just some casual lifts and long distance, slow-paced runs to build this base. As you progress, it’s good to start upping the wattage by maxing in the weight room or doing sprints. One of the most important parts of lifting during this period is that it will help prevent injuries come wrestling season.

With your foundation set firmly, you will be in great position to make the most of the season and pull ahead of competitors quickly. Also, it will give you extra confidence knowing that you are starting out on the right foot.

Finally:

At this point—months before the season—weight should not be a central issue. It is something to be aware of, but not obsessed over. This means eating healthy and exercising, but retaining plenty of energy to focus on wrestling. This is a period measured not by the scale, but by improvements on the mat.

Remember:

Have fun.  Wrestling in the off season can be tedious and routine if you aren’t having fun.

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Enemies

I just started rereading one of my all-time favorite books, The 33 Strategies of War, by Robert Greene, and I came across this quote:

“Enemies also give you a standard by which to judge yourself, both personally and socially. The samurai of Japan had no gauge of their excellence unless they fought against the best swordsman; it took Joe Frazier to make Mohammad Ali a truly great fighter. A tough opponent will bring out the best in you. And the bigger the opponent, the greater your reward, even in defeat. It is better to lose to a worthy opponent than to squash some harmless foe.”

This is exactly what I was talking about in Valhalla. Even the last line of the quote is eerily similar to my sentence, “It’s better to go down swinging against a good opponent than to breeze through a mediocre one.”

Greene’s thoughts on strategy are very interesting and I would recommend this book to anyone. He has a knack for capturing the essence of combat and then boiling it down to simple, yet deeply insightful dictums. These timeless principles are applicable to coaches and athletes just as much as, if not more than, generals and soldiers. His ideas have been extremely influential on me and provide a unique lens through which I view the sport of wrestling.

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Jumping Levels

As I move back into school this year, it brings me back to a harder time: the beginning of my sophomore year. My roommate, Thomas, and I had to completely repaint and fix up our new room, which was debris-laden and disgusting at best. Due to an error in the housing arrangements, we were forced to live in the basement of the house. The only problem was that it wasn’t actually a room, but the former kitchen. We hauled bag after bag of trash out before we could even move our furniture in. Upon moving in, we found three dead rats (one was cleaned to the bone) and scores of dead cockroaches.

On top of all this, the rigorous academic year had just started, and preseason wrestling was as grueling as ever. We were lifting three times a week and running more 400s that I could count on my fingers. Day-in and day-out, it was exhausting on the mind and body. Needless to say, I was very stressed out.

When all aspects of my life seemed dismal, suddenly there was a glimmer of light. That glimmer came when Thomas returned home one day with an Xbox and the game Guitar Hero. I’ve never been crazy about video games, and I had not played this one before, but I figured, what the hell, it’ll help pass the time. I was hooked immediately.

For those of you who’ve never played Guitar Hero, you’re missing out. Like I said, I have never enjoyed video games, but this one was different. Instead of a classic Nintendo controller, players use a near life-sized electronic guitar to simulate real play. You have to strum it and hit the right frets to play along with popular songs on the screen. I started off on Easy mode.

I’d like to say that I was a natural—that I took to it like a fish to the sea—but that would be a lie, I was horrible. I played on Easy mode for a long time, learning the ropes before trying the harder levels. A few times, I tried playing Medium, but failed right away. So I stayed in the kiddie pool, refusing to jump into the proverbial ‘deep end’. The game started to consume me and I played it incessantly, but I wasn’t getting any better. Then one time Thomas called me out, “You’re never going to get better unless you stop messing around on the easy levels.”

It was as if he had challenged my manhood. Was he calling me weak? I’d show him. So I took the plunge into Medium…and failed…then I failed again…and again. Determined to succeed, I must have failed 15 times before I could complete a song on Medium, but once I got there it was a breeze. Looking back, the Easy level was almost laughable. How could I have ever been that bad? So I played on, trying to master Medium.

Another time, my friend Rodrigo challenged me to a head-to-head match on Hard. I tried backing down, “No way, I’ll get my ass kicked.”

“Come on, man. You gotta try it sometime.”

“But you have to use all four fingers on Hard, there’s no way I could do that.”

Eventually he convinced me to play and proved me right—I got crushed. But I played on, and eventually I could manage on Hard. Looking back, the Medium level was almost laughable. How could I have ever been that bad? So I played on, trying to master Hard. You get the point.

Sometimes, the level above us seems daunting, so we avoid it. It is the Unknown and Unfamiliar, and it’s a little frightening. I was comfortable playing Easy, and winning. It is always comforting to know you can succeed without any challenges. The price of that comfort is that you never progress. When you stray from your comfort zone, it is not easy. There are new challenges and overwhelming obstacles you will have to face, but it is these struggles that define and sharpen your resolve.

This applies to all aspects of life; when you push yourself past your comfort zone, you are forced to adapt, quickly. In the process of ‘jumping into the deep end’ you perform on a higher plane and eventually make a distinct jump to a higher level. Think of the first time you did something scary and how uncomfortable you were. Push past it and it’s no longer a challenge. Take the jump.

Jump levels.

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Jumping Levels, Preview

“…Anyway, personal challenges of that degree. Personal challenges that you alone accept, and are willing to carry out in a public arena in front of friends and foes alike, can often times be the precise moment when an athlete will “jump levels” (to use your John Smith quote, flowrestling.com). The confidence that can be gained from a single instance of excellence is immeasurable. I have seen it over and over in my 23 years of wrestling. And I look forward to seeing it and hearing it about you this winter. Stay healthy, stay strong, stay focused. NCAA CHAMPIONSHIP!”

-Sean Harrington, legendary Mass wrestler

More to come on this point.  In the meantime, WATCH THIS:

http://www.flowrestling.org/videos/speaker/151/5556-john-smith-after-practice

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Fartlek

With my precious summer winding down, I’ve been seeking refuge on Cape Cod for the past few days. My grandparents have a peaceful waterfront property on the Childs River, which feeds out into the Vineyard Sound. Sitting around this morning, I felt the need for an adventure. I grabbed my Yellow Lab pup, Brando, and struck out in a rowboat for the unknown.

Down the river there is a huge chunk of land known as Washburn Island, which is uninhabited except for campers and picnickers who make the trip in boats. I rowed about three football fields downstream, pulled the boat in, and set off into the woods. Brando surged ahead, as if directly challenging me to a race. Barefoot and shirtless I thought, What the hell, I’ll go for a jog.

We ran the winding path a few miles to the end of the island. There are few simple pleasures in life as satisfying as a romp through the woods. Stopping, I looked around at the scenery and took in the salty sea breeze. This is the life.

Long distance runners often change up their training to get away from the monotony of laps on the track. A run in the woods is an ideal way to get some mileage and have fun at the same time. Runners even have a word for this, fartlek (seriously), which is stolen from the Swedish word meaning “speed play.” This method usually consists of a casual run through the countryside. It has become a training philosophy used by Olympians and casual joggers alike.

With my four-legged friend setting the pace, I turned my course about, continuing on my fartlek. Suddenly I took a wrong turn and lost my bearings.  I decided to bushwhack it, as newspaper headlines started zooming through my head. Search Continues for Missing Wrestler. We pressed on, my bare feet bruised and shins cut up from tangles of thorns that infest the island. I let Brando lead the way, thinking he’d use his animalistic instincts to get us back to the boat. We zigzagged through the woods, wishing I’d left a trail of breadcrumbs. After miles upon miles of wasted effort, we reached a beach. A couple picnicking there gave me directions and sent me down the shore.

The rocky beach and broken clam shells cut into my feet, so I took to the knee-deep water. This was a perfect resistance workout. I sprinted ahead, overtaking Brando in the deep water with my longer legs. This was the longest I’d run in years and it started to get to me. Completely exhausted, my stride started to shorten and my pace slowed. With the boat in sight, we sprinted the last 100 meters and both panted to the finish.

I rowed home and collapsed, completely spent. Going against the current gave me plenty of time to reflect on my trip. It was exhilarating; the combination of adrenaline and summer bliss formed a powerful stimulant. Though I had just tired myself to the core, I felt like I could do it all again a few more times.

Who says workouts can’t be fun too?

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Valhalla

There was a day when it was noble to die on the field of battle, clutching your sword until your last breath sputtered out.  In ancient Norse mythology, only those who died bravely in battle were sent to an afterlife in Valhalla.  This was the warrior’s ideal end—not a thing to run from, but to seek.

 

At tournaments, often you hear, “I hope I don’t have to wrestle so-and-so…he’s a state champ.”  There is nothing wrong with the fear of losing, as it is something that gives nightmares to even the best wrestlers.  But to allow your fear of losing to overshadow your competitive drive is worse than losing.   It is cowardice.

 

The competitor who fears competition runs from the inevitable.  Just as the warrior believes that death is inescapable and it is better to end gloriously, losing is a given.  There will always be someone, someday, who will beat you.  The sooner you get over that the better.  The true competitor doesn’t run from this, but tries to find his or her own Valhalla.

 

I have never had an undefeated season, and I don’t plan on it.  Every year, I have had someone challenge me, push me, and beat me.  And I have come out better because of it.  Whether it’s up a weight class or at a national tournament, there is always a way to lose.  It’s better to go down swinging against a good opponent than to breeze through a mediocre one.

 

This doesn’t just apply to big matches and screaming fans.  The easiest and most painless way to do this is in the wrestling room, every day.  Look around, find the best guy, and go catch a beating.  You will be better for it.

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Introduction

When I started wrestling in third grade, I had no idea how much my life would change over the coming years.  I came home from my first practice and told my dad, “This is what I want to do.”  That day was so consequential to the rest of my life that I can’t even picture where I would be today without it.  Since then I have grown, learned, failed, fell short, bounced back, and most importantly: experienced.

 

It is this all-encompassing experience that I hope to pass on to readers.  Over the years, I tried my best to be a student of the sport and learn from everyone.  I’ve been blessed to be surrounded by great people who have shared with me many lessons—both on the mat and off.  My purpose for writing this blog is to pass this knowledge on.

 

I don’t claim to have all the answers, in fact it is quite the opposite.  Figuring out my goals and how to reach them is still a daily struggle.  I will sit here trying to iron them out, and I look forward to this process.  That is the best part of writing—you can ask and answer questions at the same time.  Just like they say that coaching wrestling reinforces and solidifies your own technique, I hope to learn through my own reflection.

 

I hope you enjoy what I have to offer and can gain something from my journey.

 

 

Also: I know the word “blog” has bad connotations; I don’t particularly like the word myself.  It reminds me of some political pundit ranting about current events or a teenage girl whining about the whims of life.  I will try not to burden you with my trifling opinions, but inevitably I will, after all this is a blog.

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